Nothing is happening to you, it is for you. There are reasons why things change, but a misunderstanding can occur if you are not vibrationally and consciously aware of why things are happening.

Humans are “creatures of habit”, when we are use to a certain way of living, acting and thinking it can be very difficult change, which leds the human stuck in a cycle. Maybe the environment changes, but habits will stay the same unless the human makes the choice of true-self change. To get new results things must change and that is where vibration is at play. If one fights the change needed then one will begin to take all circumstances personal.

Not all humans are born with the strength to not take things personal, and also not many are taught a technique to help the ego understand (click here to learn more about ego). Over the years if one is not taught how to flow through misunderstandings, situations, people’s opinions and actions, even their own, it can warp the view of the true reality. It begins to feel like everyone and everything is out to get you but , in truth, nothing is out to get you. You are simply misreading your own energy and misunderstanding occurrences around you. Turns out YOU are actually the one out to get you. You need to remind yourself that any situations that come are opportunities for leveling up the mindset which attracts better energy in life. It is not happening to you, it is happening for you. Every chance is a new opportunity for growth, they are lessons! It can be an opportunity to forgive, try something new, listen, slow down, help, focus, or love. All moments present opportunities , they are not “challenges”. If you view them as challenges then you must wire your mind to begin to see the opportunities and heal your triggers. (click here to learn about Triggers)

God wants YOU to see your truth so you can pick yourself up and level up to higher vibrations in your life.

It is not your job to change anyone but yourself. Naturally, others will change when they are ready. When you make the changes you need or don’t manage your emotions accordingly, overtime, it can create a energetic stir up within yourself. This leads to disconnect within yourself and you begin to take things personal and can lead to impulsive behavior.

You are NOT emotions.

When people say “I am angry” or “I am depressed”: YOU are not a emotion. You are a human being that can relate to certain feelings when things are happening but that does not mean you ARE those things. You are taking it personal and creating a false-sense of self. Remove yourself from the emotion, the emotion is not a personality of yours, it is simply passing through you. The more you practice bringing yourself back to YOU it helps the process of raising your vibration. When you raise your vibration you begin to see your true reality.

Society is reacting to all manner of things everyday and all day. The world continues to do what is does best but that does not mean you need to keep up with THAT world. It is not meant for you to take just anything in. You are meant to take in what serves you in the level that you are in, the levels you are working towards and the life true-self seeks. It is a waste of energy to take in society’s actions or reactions in as your your own. You are your own being on your own journey. Things aren’t meant to be taken personal, they are meant to be observed and learned from .

Raise your vibration by focusing on what you need to do for your life.

The more you practice healthy actions, thoughts, and reactions the more your reality will match your true-self.